Am I the only one who is lonely?
To answer the question. NO. You are NOT the only one who is lonely. What does 'being lonely' imply? 1. a: being without company : lone b: cut off from others : solitary. 2: not frequented by human beings : desolate. 3: sad from being alone. Well, the definition does not help as I have felt alone with plenty of people around. Being alone is not being seen or found. People today have 'busy' lives with plenty of technology attached so you do not have to have personal contact. It seems so many people are laughing and having a good time, yet...are they really? Sit back and watch.
A common place would be a restaurant or mall. Find a place where you can observe. Too often, you find couples and groups with little conversation, topical conversation, or you notice the 'girls' group gossiping about others. Does a lot of 'friends' on Face Book signify a person who is not lonely because they have a lot of 'friends'? It shows how you can push a button for friends. How many of those 'friends' are meaningful, that share joy, happiness and life?
We all have something in our heart's and look to share with another. When we find no one readily available, we tend to compensate and pretend, make opportunity, instead of being ourselves. Maybe you assume that 'being yourself' is boring? Now, this is NOT true! Before I came to know who I was, I was alone (even when I was married), lonely, and worked around many people and places by overacheiving. You know what? Overworking and putting myself in public did not help. It was not until I reached into my heart for what I loved to do and see. No one else could do that for me. To many people use their work and friends to identify who they are. This leaves MANY people feeling alone and they disguise it well. When you know who you are, you have confidence, energy, success, security, hope, love and an essence about you that people tend to gravitate towards and they do not know why! It is because YOU are genuinely YOU! Each step and word you take comes from your heart and is unique to you. No one else can possibly be YOU. Oh, sure, they can imitate you (a compliment). People imitate, yet few carry the true sincerity and essence of who they truly are.
It took a visit to an exuberant church to capture my attention and a complete curiosity of 'laying of hands' to overcome. I thought the people were 'crack pots'! Well, we ALL have cracked, broken hearts, I wanted to find out who this was that 'did not care' if I was raped, an addict, abused and unnoticed. Well....I found out and when I found out....my Father gave a new meaning to love, overcoming, never being alone. When I need encouragement? I ask. When I need a miracle? I ask. When someone is being a bully? I cry, then ask. The amazing thing... my Father answers my questions and call me His daughter, His own, like no one else EVER has in my life. All the sudden I have more than I ever had in my life, can love deeper than I have ever loved, know more than I can possibly think of, and have a heart so FULL....I HAVE to share with others, even if they do not know my Father. I do not have to tell them about my Father, unless they ask, because I know He is with me where ever I am and will send plenty of 'company' if I need it. Do you know He has legions...yes...LEGIONS of angels, who LOVE to make a way for you? They LOVE to run through the halls with you. When I am feeling lost or literally have lost something, I turn to the Holy Spirit and He finds it for me!! And, when I need that parking spot...He gives me favor! MMmmmm....life is good and...getting better!
Is all this true? Oh yes. It is a matter of you reaching within your heart and finding what makes you special, and then, unique. You cannot find it in a book, movie, another person. It is in you, waiting for you to find it!! It is SO FUN meeting people who really know who they are..and I have to say they are rare, yet one you will never forget!! This could be YOU!!!
I will keep my eye out for you! I love meeting the true, passionate, loving, beautiful, handsome YOU! YOU have so much to offer that it makes me want to just go stand in your space, so whatever it is you have found can 'rub off' on me...because true essence can be shared, recognized and NEVER taken from you! IT is something your Father gave you before birth. What He gives cannot be taken by anyone, nor imitated.
From: Someone who will be looking for the unique YOU!
www.groundsofgrace.com www.fullfillyourdestiny.org
A common place would be a restaurant or mall. Find a place where you can observe. Too often, you find couples and groups with little conversation, topical conversation, or you notice the 'girls' group gossiping about others. Does a lot of 'friends' on Face Book signify a person who is not lonely because they have a lot of 'friends'? It shows how you can push a button for friends. How many of those 'friends' are meaningful, that share joy, happiness and life?
We all have something in our heart's and look to share with another. When we find no one readily available, we tend to compensate and pretend, make opportunity, instead of being ourselves. Maybe you assume that 'being yourself' is boring? Now, this is NOT true! Before I came to know who I was, I was alone (even when I was married), lonely, and worked around many people and places by overacheiving. You know what? Overworking and putting myself in public did not help. It was not until I reached into my heart for what I loved to do and see. No one else could do that for me. To many people use their work and friends to identify who they are. This leaves MANY people feeling alone and they disguise it well. When you know who you are, you have confidence, energy, success, security, hope, love and an essence about you that people tend to gravitate towards and they do not know why! It is because YOU are genuinely YOU! Each step and word you take comes from your heart and is unique to you. No one else can possibly be YOU. Oh, sure, they can imitate you (a compliment). People imitate, yet few carry the true sincerity and essence of who they truly are.
It took a visit to an exuberant church to capture my attention and a complete curiosity of 'laying of hands' to overcome. I thought the people were 'crack pots'! Well, we ALL have cracked, broken hearts, I wanted to find out who this was that 'did not care' if I was raped, an addict, abused and unnoticed. Well....I found out and when I found out....my Father gave a new meaning to love, overcoming, never being alone. When I need encouragement? I ask. When I need a miracle? I ask. When someone is being a bully? I cry, then ask. The amazing thing... my Father answers my questions and call me His daughter, His own, like no one else EVER has in my life. All the sudden I have more than I ever had in my life, can love deeper than I have ever loved, know more than I can possibly think of, and have a heart so FULL....I HAVE to share with others, even if they do not know my Father. I do not have to tell them about my Father, unless they ask, because I know He is with me where ever I am and will send plenty of 'company' if I need it. Do you know He has legions...yes...LEGIONS of angels, who LOVE to make a way for you? They LOVE to run through the halls with you. When I am feeling lost or literally have lost something, I turn to the Holy Spirit and He finds it for me!! And, when I need that parking spot...He gives me favor! MMmmmm....life is good and...getting better!
Is all this true? Oh yes. It is a matter of you reaching within your heart and finding what makes you special, and then, unique. You cannot find it in a book, movie, another person. It is in you, waiting for you to find it!! It is SO FUN meeting people who really know who they are..and I have to say they are rare, yet one you will never forget!! This could be YOU!!!
I will keep my eye out for you! I love meeting the true, passionate, loving, beautiful, handsome YOU! YOU have so much to offer that it makes me want to just go stand in your space, so whatever it is you have found can 'rub off' on me...because true essence can be shared, recognized and NEVER taken from you! IT is something your Father gave you before birth. What He gives cannot be taken by anyone, nor imitated.
From: Someone who will be looking for the unique YOU!
www.groundsofgrace.com www.fullfillyourdestiny.org
Posted by FullFillYourDestiny at 12/8/2011 2:43 PM 
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