Interesting with the timing of this..... Not only has it developed a new awareness of interaction with others, but interaction with my own family, which is vital in the progression of moving forward in His will and towards our eternal rewards. Freedom....true freedom is an option we all have the opportunity to experience and live by.
Okay, get our your bible and review these passages. Read through them a few times and ask God for understanding and the progression to change the negative that has been imposed on our lives. Yes, imposed, for the enemy is NOT kind.
Emotionless - Romans 1:31
Destitute of natural affections; filled with desire for unnatural affection experiences - extreme behavior, turning a blind eye and ear to normal reactions and feelings of others (per concordance research in King James Version and Dictionary)
Isolation pertains to our family and many others. It is something that our family has had for generations. It has become a way of life that we are so familiar with we do not realize how we have incorporated it in our lives. The awareness level is the step before action is taken, then breakthrough. This has been brought up to siblings which made complete sense. Our mutual question is: What can we do about it? We can and should work through this together. It is a self imposed isolation. We do things among ourselves or even by ourselves to achieve our lonely success. This includes not showing or expressing love, and we definetly do not reach out to ask for help, which is also generational. We all are experiencing isolation to different degree's that gives the feeling of being rejected and it does not have to be this way. It is a wall the enemy has extended to us and we have adopted the wall as a way of life. It is easy to see how this effects our friends, as we see them struggle in their lives. We are no different. It is just easier to see it in others. We are not alone in this by any means.
Lack of emotion and isolation go hand in hand; both of which can be reversed and has to be, to move forward. Like all things, it takes a committement to change which is uncomfortable until we stay with it long enough to make it a good habit. A declaration and accountability to each other to work together to expel these negative traits is needed. The below paragraphs explain why we must work together. It is God's heart and desire. He made ALL men and women to be relational in love. unity and relationship. We each are capable of this for we are the VERY image of God. All things are possible! Mark 10:27 What a wonderful opportunity we have been given, if we take the first step...to make a difference, not only for ourselves, but others! The possibilities..... WOW! (Walking on Water)
"The more isolated we become, the more cold, distant and hardened we become." Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
We are to all act as friends, as Jesus calls us each a friend, not a servant. By being a servant we isolate and distance ourselves, feel inferior to others and Jesus by not building a relational relationship with others and God, for we were designed to be kingdom builders, relational and work together: two is better than one and three, makes a strong binding cord. John 15:12-17
We are given motto's (scripture), words to live by that resonate with us:
These verses are VERY loaded in how the Lord intents for us to conduct ourselves individually:
These are another example of how the Lord set you apart, made you unique, different from anyone else. Jeremiah 1:5
God approved of you before He set you in your mother's womb!
Dad: "The truth will set you free." John 8:32 WOW!
Brother: "Then shalt thou understand the fear of the Lord, and find the knowledge of God" Proverbs 2:5 WOW!
Myself: "All things are Possible." Mark 10:27
This is an example of how each of us were given different gifts, talents and strengths to work together, to make a difference for others. Can you imagine what it would be like if we combined these girfts for the good to move forward?! Whew!
One last trait we all carry to different degree's is resentment. Resentment comes in different forms that include lack of emotion, isolation, anger, jealousy, etc.... It is the root to the above issues and it is our pride that cuts us short from apologizing or admitting any contribution to resolving an issue. I AM GUILTY, and refuse to let such a negative trait disrupt my life. It is easy to say we should forgive and love one another as He loves us. We all realize this, but VERY hard to overcome. Silence and excuses are not an option when trying to resolve any issue; it builds the issue. Action and perseverance is needed to overcome as well as an open heart and commitment of resolution. A battle must be fought before FREEDOM can be rewarded. The very reason Jesus died on the cross. Jesus experienced a greater pain and commitment than we have ever gone through. Jesus accepted the accountability of our sin to set us free. HUGE!! It is something we can only imagine, but puts into perspective that we CAN change even though there is pain, commitment and accountability. Nothing is as severe as what was imposed on Jesus, for our sake.
This all is heavy, but I for one do not want to carry such a burden and want to "lighten" the load. Your honesty is appreciated so we can all move forward at God's speed, instead of our own speed. A path is much easier to travel when the pot holes, rabbit trails and walls have been removed. And the cool thing...when a "friend" steps in to help provide and assist you with that path and does it selflessly, just to help YOU attain freedom and overcome. They don't expect anything from you. They gain their reward and satisfaction from the Lord when He says, "Well, done my faithful child". His opinion (judgment) is the only one that counts; not yours, or anyone else's. You will know you are on the right path by His favor and abundance. Life will suddenly seem less oppressive and easier to live without so many road blocks (issues) that take your breath away. The issues will be minor as we are to turn all our worries over to Jesus. For Pete's sake, when the enemy comes knocking, let Jesus answer the door! Don't even entertain the enemy when you do not have too. We all have that choice. You are welcome to stand behind the "window" and observe, then act according to His guidance and Word. It is an option we ALL have to exercise and way He protects us. Allow Jesus to embrace the issue while you sit as His feet and receive His blessings to move forward into your intended destiny.
Whew! Did not intend to take it this far, but relief is on my heart as well my devotion to you, my brothers, my sisters, friends and those who God intends for me to help. I only want the best for you and others, with no surface tension and false pretenses allowed. I want to help you and others, be ALL YOU can be. It is a tall mountain that I want to climb as I get to walk with Jesus, talk with the Holy Spirit, meet new friends, develop relationships, and gain the knowledge and wisdom of God Himself, as we were made in His image. What a trip THAT is!!
Emotionless
Isolation
Rejection
Resentment
Pride
I, Dana, take these negative traits and rebuke them, in the Name of Jesus! I no longer want to allow such negativity to be imposed as a way of life. The enemy has NO authority over me. Through the strength and love of Jesus, I proclaim MY freedom, as He intended, and that Jesus provided. By His grace and mercy, set me free! Help me to move forward at His pace to do unto others as He has done for us! In Jesus Name I pray and ask for forgiveness. AMEN!
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Have a great day!